Everything was spot on. When Darren said a truck driver my ears pricked up and then when he said one of five , I was holding my breathe at that point Derek was one of five brothers. He described him to a tea . The two names mentioned Barry (you would think a bloke) but it was his pet name for my motorbiking sister (Barry Sheene lol) yes it was someone on his same age level. When the penny dropped I was laughing so much. The name Tom or Tommy was our very first neighbour who was known by both names. I wasn’t spooked and took great comfort in the fact that Derek was proud of me, after all the sudden timing of his death I had an awful lot of other stuff going on too. I did thank Darren at the end of the evening so again thank you Stef
